The other night I was walking on the boardwalk with my cousin. I happened to mention that my idea of a great date would be a guy taking me down the shore, eating pizza (and other goodies) on the boardwalk and then going miniature golfing. Then we laughed because that was what we were doing, minus the mini golf.
Later on, as we walked I was commenting on how important it is for girls (especially young ones) to feel desired and cared for by the men in their life (brothers, dads, cousins, etc) and the role rejection and abandonment can play in their lives. We then began talking about how close the two of us were growing up and all the riduculous games we played. I jokingly said, "Yeah, we were so close for the longest time and then you just left me behind (when you became a teenager)." He responded with, "Oh, is that why you are such an awkward dater now (this was in response to an earlier conversation about my goofy, nonexistant love life)? I didn't realize that abandoning you would have that affect on you? Maybe this fake date will fix your problems."
So as hysterical as this is I would like to take a moment to encourage all the men out there to really make sure you are fighting for and supporting the women God has placed in your lives, especially sisters, cousins and moms. The truth of the matter is that we need you! We learn what to expect and what standards to set from the men we are closest to.
P.S. Ant, I don't blame you for my awkwardness. :)
